Hurry up…and write

April 9, 2019

You know that old saying, “Hurry up and wait”?

That seems to be what getting started in the freelance writing world is all about – bursts of proactive outputs followed by a lot of waiting.


Photo by Quaz Amir from Pexels

Waiting for someone to get back to you about creating a custom logo. Waiting to connect with that other freelancer on LinkedIn. And of course, waiting to hear back from those pitches you sent out so you can land your first real writing gig!

Perseverance is key in this business, and a little bit of patience will go a long way as well. But what do you do while patiently persevering until you can have that next burst of activity?

The answer is easy, you write.

Spend that downtime honing your mad skills, yo!

Isn’t that why you got into this in the first place? You want to stand out from the crowd, rise above the noise and to do that your writing needs to set you apart. At the end of the day, that’s what sells you. Your words.

So it makes sense to use every spare minute you can creating, polishing and perfecting that skill. It’s money in the bank.

The next time you are stuck waiting on someone or something else before you can move forward, take a moment, shift gears, and then start pounding those keys.

  • Write a blog post
  • Write a blog post and save it for a rainy day
  • Send out another pitch, or three
  • Leave thoughtful comments on a few blogs
  • Email your aunt Gertrude and thank her for that batch of rock hard oatmeal raisin cookies.
  • Check in with an old friend and ask how they are doing

It doesn’t matter, just pick one and write. Focusing on your writing will make you a better, and more marketable, writer in the long run. If you want proof, take a moment to read some of your older work. Do you see how much you have improved? Can you see your voice shining through in your newer content? Psst. It’s from all of that writing.

What are you waiting for? Hurry up and write!


Personal Pizza

April 2, 2019
Recently I was asked to come up with a personal mantra as part of a business course I am taking.

This was supposed to be a phrase that would bring me comfort and renewed focus if, as often happens in life, all was not going according to plan. Living in a ‘woke’ society, positive affirmations are a dime a dozen these days.

A quick Google search for personal mantras will give you more positive affirmations than you can shake a mala at.

Most of the sayings I was finding didn’t carry any weight with me. As a Gen X-er, they just felt too fluffy for my taste. I grew up during the era of posters with cute kittens slipping off a branch bearing the words, “Hang in there.”

We were the kids who grew up on tough love. Personal mantra? My mother’s mantra was, “Because I said so, that’s why.”

The exercise felt goofy but I wanted to put in the work and find something that actually held meaning to me. When I’m having a lean month, I need a saying with a little more depth and personal meaning than, “I dare to be different” or “Give your stress wings and let it fly away.”

Growing more and more frustrated I looked over at my desk, and that’s when it hit me.

I already had a personal mantra.

Here’s the thing about wisdom, it often shows up in the most surprising places.

A few years ago I was visiting my friend who lives in Pittsburgh. She took me to this fabulously irreverent brewpub for dinner. The Church Brew Works is, as the name implies, located in a beautiful old church. (If you are ever in Pittsburgh I highly recommend it, but that’s a post for another day.)

While we were perusing the menu, my friend expressed concern over the size of the pizza to our waitress. She wondered if these were personal size pizzas or if they were a typical pizza to split among the table. Without skipping a beat the sage taking our order smiled and said,

“Every pizza is a personal pizza if you truly believe in yourself.”

Bam! Talk about enlightenment.

I came home that weekend and wrote those brilliant words on a notecard which has hung above my desk ever since.

Let’s face it, that little slice of wisdom is all you need to get you through the scalding hot cheese of life. What’s your personal mantra that gets you through those tough spots, dear reader?

img_20190402_072807